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Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2012 16:40:44 GMT -8
Do you forgive and forget or do you hold a grudge and get even at all costs? Is it possible that today we demonize not forgiving as much as we idealize forgiving?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 10, 2012 7:43:24 GMT -8
So we're good then Dom? :D
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Post by Deleted on Dec 10, 2012 7:46:35 GMT -8
I was talking to someone on Saturday and I asked him about his sister who I knew from school. He said he hasn't talked to her in 16 years. I thought he must be a pretty good grudge holder as they live about a mile away from each other and their kids go to the same school.
I'm not capable of holding a grudge, frankly its too much work.
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Post by Willing Sniper on Dec 10, 2012 12:19:07 GMT -8
I don't have grudges. I do remove people from my life though. I don't harbor resentment, you simply don't exist for me anymore.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 10, 2012 12:24:16 GMT -8
I don't have grudges. I do remove people from my life though. I don't harbor resentment, you simply don't exist for me anymore. Oh I see...the "you're dead to me" attitude, nope thats not a grudge. :-/
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Post by Willing Sniper on Dec 10, 2012 12:27:17 GMT -8
I don't have grudges. I do remove people from my life though. I don't harbor resentment, you simply don't exist for me anymore. Oh I see...the "you're dead to me" attitude, nope thats not a grudge. :-/ No it's not. No bad feelings. I don't bad mouth you. I won't fight with you. I'm just done, and you are off my radar entirely.
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Post by ♬ pkbucko ♬ on Dec 10, 2012 12:29:09 GMT -8
I harbor grudges. It's part of who I am. It's a part of everybody.
It's how we deal with those grudges that determines our sanity.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 10, 2012 12:29:40 GMT -8
Oh I see...the "you're dead to me" attitude, nope thats not a grudge. :-/ No it's not. No bad feelings. I don't bad mouth you. I won't fight with you. I'm just done, and you are off my radar entirely. Actually I am the same way but it takes an awful lot to get me to the stage where I become entirely indifferent. Once there though, there is no going back.
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Post by ♬ pkbucko ♬ on Dec 10, 2012 12:33:02 GMT -8
No it's not. No bad feelings. I don't bad mouth you. I won't fight with you. I'm just done, and you are off my radar entirely. Actually I am the same way but it takes an awful lot to get me to the stage where I become entirely indifferent. Once there though, there is no going back. Zackly.
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